Top 11 keys to Achieve success in life.

 

SUCCESS is what we all look in our life and  do all things to reach that.  here are some of the keys to reach success step by step.Here sharing with you all some of the keys which will help you reach that.

1. PLAN while others are playing.
 
2. STUDY while others are sleeping.

3. DECIDE while others are delaying.

4. PREPARE while others are daydreaming.

5. BEGIN while others are procrastinating.

6. WORK while others are wishing.

7. SAVE while others are wasting.

8. LISTEN while others are talking.

9. SMILE while others are frowning.

10. COMMEND while others are criticizing.

11. PERSIST while others are quitting.

Be Someone!!! New thoughts on life/ Best post 2015

Be someone who listens, and you will be heard.
Be someone who cares, and you will be loved.
Be someone who gives, and you will blessed.
Be someone who comfort and you will know peace.
Be someone who genuinely seeks to understand and you will be wise.
Be someone kind, someone considerate,and you will be admired.
Be someone who takes action,and you will move life forward.
Be someone who lifts others higher,and you life will be rich.
Be someone who filled with gratitude, 
And there will be no end to the things for which you'll be thankful.
Be someone who lives wit you,with purpose,as your own light brightly shines.
Be in every moment,the special someone you are truly meant to be.

Top 10+ Best inspiration quotes on life/love

 Sharing awesome collection of Best inspiration quotes of life/love, i hope you all will like it :)

Emotions in Relationship/Best note on Relationship

"In life we are taught a great many things, but for some reason we do not learn much about emotions! For most of us our emotions are something of a mystery. We know that we have them but have little idea where they come from or how we can experience them more positively."

At any point in life, our emotions will be experienced from any of six different perspectives.

Denial > Resistance > Pain > Guilt > Fear > Love

 
Denial - Many of our fears and insecurities are hidden beneath the surface of our conscious minds and we can therefore be completely unaware of them and how they affect our lives. We are often in denial of these insecurities - an unconscious strategy designed to avoid us having to face the emotional pain that we believe might overwhelm us if we were to unearth our hidden fears. We hide them away for protection and then try to get on with life. Unfortunately, these insecurities have a nasty habit of reappearing in our lives as emotional trauma, relationship difficulties and even health problems.

Resistance - Life will through all sorts of challenges at us and these will raise the emotional temperature. In a struggle to keep our insecurities at bay and avoid feeling our negative emotions we will tend to resist anybody or anything in life that might trigger these unpleasant sensations. This normally involves some form of compensatory behavior or distraction from anything that could trigger our pain. Trying to be very successful in education or work to gain approval, or trying to be a really 'nice' person would be typical examples of compensations, but there are many, many more.

Pain - Sooner or later, usually due to traumatic events in our life, the resistance is broken and we begin to feel emotional pain. Our reaction is to either bury it again through more resistance and denial or hand the pain to somebody else - we tend to blame other people for our negative emotions. This is what happens in bad behavior, arguments and rows as we judge and project our pain outwards into the world.

Guilt - Under our tendency to blame other people for our problems is a usually unconsciously held belief that, in fact, we are to blame. This guilt is based around our low self esteem and unworthiness that we take on at a very early age and comes out of a belief that we have let people down (often our parents) and hurt people in some way. Self-blame and guilt are always mistakes and much of our work focuses on letting go of these damaging emotions. More information on Guilt & Low Self esteem.

Fear - All these negative emotions are actually hiding our deeply buried fears.

 There will be many different fears that we are unwilling to deal with, but ultimately these will boil down to our fears about being abandoned, rejected and unloved. As we gain confidence and greater emotional awareness we are able to feel, understand and let go of these fears.

Love - As we face and heal our fears, rather than suppressing or denying them, we discover that they hide our natural state - that of love, spirit and pure positive energy. As we strip away the pain, guilt and fear we are left with the beauty of our essence - full of creativity, abundance and joy.

We usually experience these emotional responses sequentially. They appear as layers in our reaction to people and events in our lives. Our negative emotions can be understood as our defense mechanism to avoid feeling pain, guilt and fear, that usually originates in our childhood. If we want to gain more emotional awareness and maturity we need to work down through our emotional layers and heal or our insecurities and fears. By understanding the layered nature of emotions we begin to understand why we have certain thoughts and feelings and also understand the people around us better. Ultimately we can let go of all the negative emotions and bring more love into our lives and improve our relationships and romantic experiences.

Best English Poem: Dont Quit/Poem on life/Sad english poem

When things go wrong as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all up hill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.
Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out;
Don't give up though the pace seems slow--

You may succeed with another blow,
 

Success is failure turned inside out--
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems so far;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit--
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit..

Relationship/Quotes on love/ best of quotes in relationship.

The state of being in love helps us create an illusory world where we are exclusively loved and valued. we love those who make us feel good and avoid those who dislike us.

The state of being  in love does not and cannot last.But love endures,if the relationship has been build on a solid,meaningful basis.

There is a time for advancing and a time for retreating in relationships, just like in the battlefield between cloying togetherness and too much distance.

Try and restore the sweet little touches that nurture a relationship,after all,love and care the only incentives to keep a couple together!

Communication is critical to a relationship,talking is important,but even more important is listening to what your partner tells you--through words and even through silences.

Romance is not an emotion;it's a feeling come and go,the fizzle is inbuilt in the sizzle to romance, steady,dependable love lats forever.

Truth about life/ Art of living.

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.
But what is more painful is to love someone and never
find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who
means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was
never meant to be and you just have to let go.

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a
porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away
feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose
it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been
missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an
hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it
takes a lifetime to forget someone.

6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth,
even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you
smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day
seem bright.

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,
be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and
one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the others shoes. If you feel that it
hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck
a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may
heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best
of everything they just make the most of everything that comes
along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with
a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone
around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,
you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

Pehli nazar ka pyaar/ Love at first sight./hindi poem

Bahharon ke shama ek chehra nazar aaya,

Kho gaya mera dil kho gaya mera saaya.

Wo husn ki pari saanson mein yun bhari,

Phoolon ki khusboo bhi kam na kar paaya,

Khilta hua kamal sangmarmar ki kaaya,

Jisse dekh kar gulaab bhi sharmaaya.

Na chahte huye bhi kadam dagmaya,

Khich gaya uski taraf jab wo muskuraya.

Nazrein mili, pyaar ka ijhaar ho gaya,

Jo kabhi na kiya wo is baar ho gaya.

Soch mein pad gaye sun ke wo meri baat,

Boli, bina jaane kaise maanu tumhari baat,

Kya kahu us waqt kya haal tha mera,

Lab unke hothon se nikla naam tha mera.

Hum kuch keh na sake sunte hi rahe,

Unki aankhon ki gehraiyon mein dubte rahe,

Wo maane na meri baat chod k saath,

Keh gaye thaam lo kisi aur ka haath.

Pehli nazar mein jo pyaar ho gaya tha,

Natiza mere doston ye usi ka hua tha,

Kasam khai hai ek din bana kar rahunga,

Dil mein uske khud ko basa ke rahunga.

Meri din aur raat sang uske guzare,

Khawabon mein apne mera khwaab dekhe,

Bana lu main usko saath mein wo ho,

Dua karna jo tum mere saath mein ho.

*Note: Hello friends this poem is shared by my friend Ravi , Even you can share your poem on my blog  just by  adding your best poetry on  our Facebook page which will be published here along with your name and link of your blog or page.

Request of a unborn girl baby to a Mother/ Save girl Child/Maa janam se pehele mat maar/Best HIndi poem 2013

Hello friends , this poem is dedicated to all women's  by a unborn girl baby. I'm just trying o explore the feelings of them that what would they request or say to their mother.

Chahe mujhe na pyaar do ,
Chahe mujhe na dular do,
Kar pao tho itna karna,
Mujhe janam se pehle maar  na dena,
Me jannani hun,
Me laxmi hun kisi k aagan ki ,
Me sapna hun kisi  k kalayi ki,
Me saahara hun kisi k zindagi ki,
Me beti hun tere  ghar ki,
Mujhe bhi de do zine ka aadhar,
Maa janam se pehle mat maar.

Mera dosh batao mujhko,
Yun na bebaat satao mujhko,
Me bhi tho ansh hun tumhari,
kaat ke yun phenk na do mujhko,
Jine ka haq de do agar tum,
Dekhlu ye sansaar ek baar,
Maa janam se pehle mat maar.

Thodi nazar badal kar dekho,
Sung zamane ke chal ke dekho,
Me bhi uncha naam karungi,
Beti se bi pehchan  banegi,
Chawthpan me sahara banungi,
Me jab aangan me chalungi,
Mishri si meethi boli bolungi,
Seva ,karuna ,taiyag  karungi, 
Dono kulo ki khatir tan mann dungi waar,
Maa janam se pehle mat Maar...

Happy Mother's day/ Article on MOTHER/ "MOTHER"/ HINDI article on MOTHER(MAA)

Hello friends this post is dedicated to all Mother's in this world on this Mother's day .

Mother a word which means a universe in one's life, an emotion that have no boundary and a feel that could never change and a part which no one wish to loose in  their life.“Maa” the first word spoken by  us when we take birth not even before opening our eyes.

There are many roles  that is been played by a women  but the most important role of her is as a Mother. It is been boon to a women to feel the life of other with in her..... I feel  great to  pen this feel and expressing the  joy of mother in my life and i would also thank my friend Ravi for adding poetic beauty to it.

 Maa  ek aisa shabd  hai jisme sari duniya samai hai, jiske jeevan me hoti hai, unse zyada khush naseeb koi nahi hota hai aur jiske jeevan me nahi hoti unka jeevan viran ho jata hai... Ma banane ka ehsaas ek aisa ehsaas hota hai jahan ek aurat ko uske sampoorn hone ka ehsaas deti hai. Wo pal unke liye bohat hi anmol hota hai aur wo unhe khulke jiti hain aur ek jeevan ko apne aap me mehsus karti hai. Jab wo kai sapne sajati hain apne hone wale bache ke liye , jis me wo itni magan ho jati hai ki koi dard nahi mehsus karti aur us pal ko sajane me lagi rehti hai.

Main aaj aap sub se  apne mann ki baat kehna chati hun  aur shayad subke mann ki jo wo mehsus tho karte hain par kabhi keh nahi pate aur jo ab tak mehsus nahi kiye hain wo ek bar zarur soche..

"Khuli jab aankh tujhe dekha, 
Ungali padak ke chalna sikha,  
Sikha tujhse diniya daari, 
Maa tu hai jag se pyaari."

 Maa jo humare janam lene k pehle se humare liye hi sochti hai aur humesha humme ek behter zindagi dene ki koshish karti hai. Unhe chahe kitni bhi takleef ho,wo humme uska ehsaas bhi nahi hone deti.Yaad aate hai wo din aaj, jab  Maa humme rat bhar jag kar lory sunati  ti ,jab tak hum so nahi jate the...
 Wo garmi k mausam me unka raat bhar jagkar  pankha karna,
 Bukhaar me raat raat bhar  jag kar patiyan badalna,
Wo unka dard me bhi muskurana , unka ungli pakad kar humme chalna sikhana,
Asmaan chune ki zid me -ma ka godi utana , 
Jab bhi hume chot lagti tho unka ansu behna aur jor se humme dar se dantna aur fir humme gale lagana yaad ata hai,Yaad aate hai wo pal jab  kabhi exam k result se darna aur Maa ka bharosa dilana ki sub tikh hi hoga.Jab hum bade hogaye tab unka humari zindagi me dost bankar sath rehna,Har sahi aur galat faisla me madat karna, humari galtiyon ko tikh karna.

Aur humne kya kiya:-

“Dard diya tujhe ehsaas aaj hai mujhe,
Ashko se behte aansoo bhi yaad mujhe,
Kar di galti kaise maangu maafi tujhse,
Mujhko teri jarurat aaj bhi hai.”

Na jane kyun hum badal jate hain kisi aur ke humare kareeb aane se,
Na jane kyun humme apne hi dhusman lagne lagte hain , Na jaane kyu????????????
Har chiz galat lagne lagti hai Maa ka kareeb rehna ,
Koi sawal karna bura lagne  lagta hai. Na jaane kyu????????????
 Kyun bhul jate hain hum apne purane rishte jo humare sabse khaas hote hain, unhi se door hone lagte hain....Aur kisi begane ke liye hum anjane me unhe dukhi kar dete hain jo humare liye na jane kitne dukh sahe honge.. …

Aaj jab me akeli hun  mujhe ehsaas ho raha hai kis takleef se meri maa guzri hongi...mene tho apni galti sudar li hai aur aaj fir unke kareeb hun jo  mere zindagi hai aur humesha rahengi... 

Aap sab bhi na jane kisi na kisi mod pe apni Maa ko takleef  di hogi, jaan bujh k ya anjane me. unhe samjhe aur tikh kare kyun ki Maa se badh kar koi nahi Na hi koi kabhi ho sakta hai, bohat der hone se pehle unhe apne zindagi me wapas le aaye. Unhe koi ashram nahi ,unhe apne dil me basaye rakhe aur ye kabhi na bhule jo aap aaj apni ma k sath karenge wahi kal apke bache aap k sath karene... 

"Sambhal jao waqt ab bhi hai,
Rab se bhi upar Maa apni hai,
Rakh lo dil mein fir tum dekho,
Khusiyan jag ki fir teri hai"

Mujhe lagta hai aap subko apne zindagi ki subse anmol chiz ki ehsaas ho gayi hogi aur koi galti hui hai tho use zarur sudarenge .... 

 

Lets give them a reason to smile on this mother's day. Happy Mother's day to all lovely Mother's.